Things that hurt
Lies
Secrets
Bullying
Abuse
Gossip
Disrespect of person
Disrespect of property

Things that heal
Truth
Open, honest, respectful communication
Protection of all, especially the most vulnerable
Justice for all
Grace and Mercy
Respect of persons
Respect of others' property, jobs, marriage, personal boundaries, etc.!

Study Matthew chapters 5-7.

Lemons

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
When life gives you lemonade, make a lemonade-stand and sell it!
When life gives you a lemonade-stand, hire others to run it, and buy a lemon grove!
When life gives you a lemon grove, tend it well and give others lemons! :)